Mama in New England

This is us, as I navigate motherhood and enjoy the amazing adventure.

We are a family of four, a cat and a dog, living outside Boston, Massachusetts. I started this blog as a way to update friends and family who are afar, but it seems to have become somewhat therapeutic & helps me laugh when I need to.

Tuesday, July 30, 2013

A Short Run

Going to write a warning here to stop reading if you don't want to know about bodies after giving birth, fluids, etc.  It's not that graphic, but it does involve post pregnancy details.  I spent a long time not writing about all the fun things that occur post pregnancy and refrained from sharing birth stories, but as this is all real, I'll lay it out there.

I'm not a runner and have tried for years to build some endurance running.  Yoga and Pilates are much more my thing, but I do enjoy, or did, running 5k races for a few years, more the camaraderie and enthusiasm of the events and that they typically raise money for a good cause.  After having Sam though, high impact activities and I did not get along. To be blunt, I'd pee a little when running, which made it even more of a not-very-fun activity.  My OB suggested surgery after I'd finished having kids- not currently helpful.  After having another close to 9 lb baby, the situation has not gotten better.

Tonight, it was beautiful out and reminded me of all the nights I would run in college and in years past, and instead of going to the gym, I decided to enjoy the evening and go for a run.  Running used to involve my iPod, a chip in my shoe that tracked my time and could be downloaded, an armband, good running shoes, and water, etc.  Tonight, I was lucky to find a sports bra for this adventure and quickly downloaded a pedometer app to my iPhone (for which I obviously did not have a armband case to strap it safely to my body).  In addition, I threw on a pair of Depends (yes, adult underwear left from all the afterbirth fun), and had my trusty nursing pads since I am breastfeeding.  All in all, it was sexy.  I told Chris I'd probably get hit by a car wearing Depends and nipple pads and would be mortified as well as injured.  

I set out on an old route to see how far I could get.  I have always tracked my runs in the past in miles, this time the ap tracked in kilometers, (I'm sure I could of switched it but not while attempting to run at dusk).  Kilometers turned out to be much more motivating as they go by more quickly than miles, I should have thought of this years ago.  Of course, after .66 kilometers the ap reset, or I hit a button checking how far I had run for the seventeenth time in 3 minutes.  I hate not tracking my runs and felt like the electronics stole my hard earned kilometers.   I ran down to the river, which, as I ran I realized was really mostly downhill.  And the run became this strange place where the younger, pre-kids me ran with the new mother and I felt like I was in a bad pivotal moment in a book.  I ran past places that have been rebuilt in my seven years here and had a series of realizations of how different things have become in my life.

Pre-Kids:
- all my running gear was accessible
- I had running outfits and gear (iPod, etc)
- I had worn-in running shoes
- I had time & could chose my time of day during which to run
- I knew the streets by distance and how much endurance I had
- my roommate and I used to run and get take out for dinner or meet up with people
- I'd often come in, cool down, and have a beer 

Now
- running gear involves fluid leakage guards
- iPod has been missing for at least a year, as has chip to insert in shoe.  iPod would probably also play Baby Beluga and Puff the Magic Dragon if it could be located
- I have blisters on the back of both feet from new sneakers I bought to walk with the kids
- I left when the kids were down for bed and came back to the baby crying to be nursed (as I was melting and ready to pass out from running) and then Sam waking up crying
- I know now the streets by the smoothness factor for stroller friendly travel and where it is safe for a 3 year old to ride a scooter
- above roommate also has a baby and moved out 5 years ago
- when I returned I had a screaming baby and no beer, and unfortunately had drank a glass of wine with dinner, before I knew I was going to run

Also, to complete this weird evening of comparison, I ran by (okay, she ran by me), one of those super sleek runners, probably a college student, who had the whole cute running ensemble going, shoes, spandex, the florescent shirts that are currently in, music device (probably more updated than an iPod).  I swear I got the once over as she sped around the corner- (my Depends were probably visible, they are really high waisted for some reason).  I wanted to tell her I used to be her- minus the sleek outfit and speed, but kind of like her.  On the next block, no joke, I saw myself in twenty years, also sort of.  A women in her late forties, early fifties, had probably had a few kids, power walking, which to be honest, would be much more my thing given that cardio is a necessary evil.  She was also more put together than I was, which I hope when my kids are older I can regain.  I wondered what she saw in me.  Probably just an overheated, panting 30 something year-old trying to get up a hill.

I made it 4 kilometers total, which wasn't bad considering it had been at least a year and a half since I actually ran.  I question whether these aps take into account the fact that most of the way back was uphill, or that there is a staircase mid-run as I cut across campus.   I did run without stopping to walk, or collapse, though my face was a strange deep red and blotchy color when I was finished.  When I was pregnant with Sam, I could run 4 miles in the middle of the summer, and still a few miles when I was 5 months pregnant.  Times have definitely changed.  
Small steps, big blisters, but small steps.






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